he who refreshes others

A generous life does not run dry—it is continually renewed.


Proverbs 11:25
A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.

Opening Reflection

Humans are naturally selfish and self-centered. We deem generosity as risky, and we instinctively worry that giving would cause us to run out of resources, time, and energy. In most cases, the instinct to hold back can feel like wisdom, especially during seasons of uncertainty. Yet, Scripture offers an entirely different perspective. 

Today’s passage tells us that generosity is not loss. On the contrary, it is nourishment. It doesn’t say that we should give recklessly and scatter carelessly. What it says is that generosity is a way of living that brings renewal, not only to the ones receiving it, but to the one giving it.

Unpacking the Verse

When we hear the phrase “a generous person,” the first thing that comes to mind is someone who loves to give. In the passage, it literally means “soul of blessing,” a person who doesn’t just give, but one whose inner disposition is inclined toward kindness and goodwill to others. That said, generosity here doesn’t refer to random acts of giving but a settled character.

And when a person is generous, prosperity follows. The word “prosper” literally means “made fat.” It’s drawn from the image of well-fed animals or thriving vegetation, and isn’t limited to financial increase. It’s much more than that. It means fullness of life, strength, vitality, and sufficiency. In the same manner, the picture of being “watered” is agricultural. It suggests refreshment and sustained growth. Scripture paints a clear image here: he who refreshes others does not become depleted, but is continually renewed.

Our passage specifically states that generosity is rewarded not through chance, but through established social and moral laws strengthened by divine approval. When you give out of the generosity of your heart, whether it’s your money, time, or energy, you can guarantee that you will benefit from it. The act itself will become a means of renewal for you.

And no, this passage does not promise unlimited wealth. What it affirms, however, is a principle you can depend on: generosity molds us into the likeness of God, and that way of living leads to life.

Application for January 10

We live in a consumeristic society, and most people, including believers, assume that security comes from accumulation. Today’s passage challenges that. In fact, it suggests that withholding and self-preservation often leads to depletion, while generosity leads to strength and stability.

“Refreshing others” isn’t limited to giving financial aid. It may take many forms, including providing practical help, giving encouragement, and showing kindness. The scale and amount of your giving is not what matters but the heart behind it. When your life is oriented toward blessing others, you can expect to be continually refreshed and replenished even when the world tells you otherwise. This is the promise held out to he who refreshes others.

A simple way to practice this today:

  • Look for an opportunity to refresh someone else in a practical way
  • Give freely without calculating return
  • Trust that generosity, exercised faithfully, does not leave the soul empty

When generosity flows outward, renewal flows inward. 

Heart Check

  • Where have I been tempted to hold back out of fear or self-preservation?
  • What does it look like for me to be a “soul of blessing” to others?
  • How might generosity become a source of renewal rather than depletion?

Prayer

Lord, shape my heart to reflect Your generosity.
Free me from fear of lack and teach me to give with trust.
Let my life be a source of refreshment to others.
And may I be renewed as I walk in Your ways.
Amen.

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